Dr. Xian Prem, Ph.D.
Mystic, Scholar, and triple certified Coach
I hold a Ph.D. in Psychology, an M.A. in Transpersonal Psychology and B.A.s in Psychology and Business Administration. I am a certified 5Rhythms Movement Meditation Facilitator, a certified Angel Therapy Practitioner and certified in Clarity Breathwork as well as a Licensed Minister and triple certified life coach including Master Somatic Coach with Strozzi Institute.
My unique combination of life in Western and Eastern hemispheres, cosmic interests of beyond the personal, and research in transcendent experiences and gratitude have led me to bring transcendence and daily life, together in a unique offering of Kundalini awakening, wellbeing, and sexual healing.
My personal journey is of uncovering layers over layers of identified existence into true bliss and happiness. I believe that healthy intimate connections in partnership, friendship, and community as well as compassion towards clients can gift us vibrant energy, a healthy body, an awake mind, and a fulfilling life.
Let’s talk about your gifts, dreams, and passions and how to manifest them!
How I think about intimacy
All my life people told me that my sexuality was not a fit. My desire for deep intimacy, not ejaculation focused did not match the cultural, social nor personal view of my partners.
After years of exploring a way of sexuality that suited my body and preferences through self-pleasuring, I wrote a manual for sacred intimacy based on Yogic principles.
Finally, I met teachers, who not only supported my view, but agreed that normal human sexuality is disgusting. Further, one mentor described that he views normal sex in a long-term relationship as more harming to the subtle energy system of a person than a one time rape. That got my attention.
How to deeply enter into new ways of lovemaking, instead of overlaying tantric sex on top of normal just for better orgasms, that’s a journey of discovery into the mysteries of the universe.
You don’t need to live up to what everyone else does. Indeed, most couples are not happy. There is more out there to discover about blissful encounters than what the media sells us.
I considered becoming a nun, but I found that awakening Kundalini life-force can be a shared journey (with or without sex).